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Peace does not come to the man who refuses to declare war on what is destroying him.

Often attributed to Seneca; not found in his works

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The line is often shared online as Seneca's, but it appears nowhere in his surviving works, and its wording is modern. Seneca (c. 4 BC–AD 65), a Roman Stoic philosopher and adviser to the emperor Nero, wrote often about peace of mind. When his friend Lucilius found that long travels had not lifted his gloom, Seneca told him in Letter 28: “You need a change of soul rather than a change of climate.” Until you lay down the burden you carry inside, he added, no place will please you.

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Kendini mahveden şeye savaş açmaya yanaşmayan insana huzur uğramaz.
Çoğu zaman Seneca'ya atfedilir; eserlerinde geçmez

Bu cümle internette çoğu zaman Seneca'ya ait diye paylaşılır, ama günümüze ulaşan eserlerinin hiçbirinde geçmez; üslubu da günümüze ait. Stoacı Romalı filozof Seneca (yaklaşık MÖ 4–MS 65), imparator Neron'un danışmanıydı ve ruh huzuru üzerine çok yazdı. Dostu Lucilius uzun yolculuklara rağmen içindeki sıkıntıdan kurtulamayınca Seneca ona 28. mektubunda şöyle yazdı: “Senin iklim değiştirmeye değil, ruh değiştirmeye ihtiyacın var.” İçindeki yükü bırakmadıkça hiçbir yerin ona iyi gelmeyeceğini de ekledi.

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Background reading: Seneca the Younger
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