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You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.

Maya Angelou, Letter to My Daughter, 2008

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From Letter to My Daughter (2008), a book of short essays. Angelou had one son and no daughter; she dedicated the book to the many women she thought of as daughters. The line comes from a passage of advice on hard times: do not complain, change what you can, and when you cannot, change the way you think about it. Maya Angelou (1928–2014) was an American poet and memoirist, best known for I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings (1969).

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Maya Angelou, Letter to My Daughter, 2008

Letter to My Daughter (Kızıma Mektup, 2008) adlı kısa denemeler kitabından. Angelou'nun bir oğlu vardı, kızı yoktu; kitabı kızı gibi gördüğü pek çok kadına adadı. Cümle, zor zamanlara dair öğütlerin arasında geçer: Yakınma, değiştirebildiğini değiştir, değiştiremiyorsan ona bakışını değiştir. Maya Angelou (1928–2014), en çok Kafesteki Kuşun Neden Şarkı Söylediğini Biliyorum (1969) adlı anı kitabıyla tanınan Amerikalı şair ve yazardı.

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