Q1019Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish; but wish the things which happen to be as they are, and you will have a tranquil flow of life.
This comes from Epictetus's Enchiridion, a compact Stoic handbook. Its practical frame is control: separate what is yours to choose from what is only yours to meet. Epictetus is not asking for passivity, but for consent to reality. Work with what arrives before wasting strength denying it.



